I had the same problem. It's not thunar that gets drawn over the panel it's xfdesktop. After I removed xfdesktop from Settings Manager > Session and Startup > Session, my desktop started working properly. Of course I lost the desktop icons like the trash bin and home, but I wasn't using them anyway.
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